Thursday, July 23, 2015

Running for Grammy....Flaming June Half Marathon


So it's been about a month and a half since my race.  Sorry that it's taken me this long to post an update - life is just really busy.

In the 4 weeks leading up to the race (and following my last post), the weekday runs continued at 5 miles with the Sunday run getting ever longer.  I threw in a 10k on a Sunday to give myself a bit of a break and topped out my training distance with 10 miles the following week.

And then I started having a lot of pain in my right foot.  Doing what research I could, I decided that it was probably the start of plantar fasciitis which was not a good sign.  The Sunday before the race I headed out for a long run and had to turn around almost instantly.  I knew that it wouldn't be a good idea to try to run in pain and would probably end up only making it worse.  The last thing I wanted to do at that point was have to withdraw from the race.

So I went home, rolled a frozen water bottle under my foot and rested.  And I hoped that it would start feeling better.

Then on Monday or Tuesday I went to TK Maxx on my lunch break to see if they had anything in stock that I might need.  (TK Maxx is just like TJ Maxx - only the name is different.  No clue why.)  I walked past the exercise equipment stand and on the top shelf was kinesiology tape.  I've never used kinesiology tape before, but I started wondering if it might help.  I did a quick Google search to see how one would tape up plantar fasciitis to make sure it was possible and then purchased a roll.

When I arrived home that night, I taped up my foot and was immediately amazed at the difference in how it felt.  Something about how the tape supports your arch which in turn gives your arch a break.  I don't understand it all - but I am a believer.  From that moment, I wore the tape 24 hours a day.  I didn't have any pain walking.  I was able to complete my last 2 pre-race runs - 4 miles and 2 miles.  And I was able to run the entire half marathon with little to no pain.

With Alice.  At the start, waiting for the countdown.  
The race was Sunday 7 June and it lived up to its name - Flaming June.  If you're reading this from the US, you will completely laugh at me when I tell you that it was sunny and around 20-23 degrees Celcius (70-75 degrees Fahrenheit).  I know - beautiful day, right?  But when you're not used to training in that, it does start to zap you.  Give me sunny and crisp.


Since the race was held just outside of Cambridge, we opted to take a taxi to get there deciding that while cycling there might be an okay warm-up, neither Alice or I wanted to have to cycle home.  We arrived with plenty of time to get checked in and warm up.  We took off in the 3rd wave - letting all the really speedy people get out in front.

Mile 1 was pretty quick - you've got an entire mass of people high on adrenaline and keen to get moving.  You just get swept up in what's going on around you.  But by mile 2 we had settled into our race pace of 9 minute miles.  I was super thankful for my Christmas gift from Luke at this point - my Nike GPS watch.  We knew we could relax a bit and enjoy the run.  13 miles is a long way to go if you're overdoing it.

Miles 2-7 were really good.  Cambridge isn't very big - even when you get outside the city, so the course covered lots of different areas.  After leaving Histon, we headed up the busway for a bit so the track was paved and nice and flat.  We then veered off into the country a bit, running through some fields and along some back roads before we connected with the busway again for a long, windy stretch.  The wind felt nice, but this was probably the least exciting section of the course.

We turned off and started to make the return trek.  It was at about this point that I started really feeling it.  I'd been running for over an hour.  I was tired.  And I had an hour still to go.  The tricks your mind plays on you at that point are just mean.  So many times I just wanted to say 'Screw it!  I'm done!'

But that run wasn't about me.  I wasn't running it because I like to run.  I wasn't running it to lose weight.  I was running it to raise money for Alzheimer's.  So I pushed those bad thoughts out and thought about Grammy and about my friends and family who were supporting me in this race.  And so I pushed.

I am not exaggerating or blowing smoke when I tell you that I could not have done this without you.  Just days before the race I had reached my fundraising goal of £300.  I had also set a time goal of 2 hours for the race and was therefore determined to hit it.

By the time I saw the mile 10 sign, I had mostly surpassed the tiredness and 'I can't do this anymore!' feeling.  I dug deep and did what I could to finish strong. I lost a few seconds on my split times, but was still on target to finish in time.


By miles 12 and 13 I had started passing quite a few people who had started in the earlier heats.  This was encouraging and helped me to keep pushing to the finish.  And I did!  With almost 2 minutes to spare.  My official time was 1:58:14.


I walked it off, stretched it out and then got ice cream!  As one does after a half marathon.  (Sadly there were no London Prides at this finish line.)

Overall it was a great experience.  If you asked me at miles 7-9,  I would have told you that I hate long distance running and that I was never going to do that again.  Ask me today and I'm not yet sure what I'd say.  I'm just now getting back into running in the mornings and that should start to pick up after next week.  I don't yet know what fundraising event is next for me.  Only time will tell, right?

Again, thank you so much for all your support throughout this race.  It means so much to me.


And while I know that Grammy doesn't understand to say thank you herself, I think she would thank you if she could.  I know that the £300+ pounds raised with go to Alzheimer's research and support.

With lots of love,
Aubs xx

Wednesday, May 6, 2015

Running for Grammy - Week 8 of Training

** Please help me reach my fundraising goal of £300 for Alzheimer's Society by donating on my Just Giving page here: https://www.justgiving.com/Aubree-Wisley-HalfMarathon-7June2015/ **

This is a conversation that happened in our house Monday night.....

Luke: How far are you running tomorrow morning?
Me: 5 miles
Luke: Phew!
Me: Yeah - my long runs have now become my short runs.

But instead of running 5 miles - I ran 6.27.  And my running partner Alice ended up at 8 miles.  


Fortunately my 'short' runs plateau at 5 miles for the rest of training and hopefully we can find a better (read: shorter) loop.

Since my last post on 19 April, I've run 40 miles - with two of those runs being my longest runs to date (7 miles 2 Sunday's ago and 8 miles this past Sunday).


 But why have I chosen to run 40 miles in the past 2 1/2 weeks?  Because my Grammy suffers from Alzheimer's and I'm running to raise money for the Alzheimer's Society in an effort to fund research that will find treatments (and maybe a cure) for this terrible disease.  

My rehearsal dinner - 21 June 2007
Right now I'm listening to a book called Elizabeth is Missing about a woman who has dementia.  It's told in the first person and is a very interesting depiction of what it must be like for someone who has dementia.  It really makes we wonder if her experience is anywhere close to Grammy's.  And my heart breaks for anyone who has to suffer through it.  As well as for the family members who are responsible for taking care of them.  

White family girls cruise 2006
Grammy turned 82 a few weeks ago.  Fortunately it was a good day and most of the family was able to attend.  I'm happy that so much of the family is still local.  I just have to wait until I go home later this year.

82nd birthday party - Thanks Andi for the photo!
As of today I have 32 days until my half-marathon.  It seems like the time is just flying by.  4 more long runs to go!

If you have a friend or family member who suffers from dementia or Alzheimer's, you know how hard it is on everyone involved.  And even if you've never experienced it first-hand, you probably will.  Please help me reach my fundraising goal of £300.  You can donate online on my Just Giving page.  

Thanks for reading.

Aubs 



Sunday, April 19, 2015

Running for Grammy - Trainng for the Flaming June Half Marathon

March 2010
Last year, Luke and I ran our first race ever - a 10k in Kew Gardens.  We then took a while off to recoup, moved house, settled into life in Cambridge, Luke started rowing and we just completely fell out of the habit of running.  After a couple months off, I started running again - trying it fit in 2-3 outings a week.  And it's been going well.

But about a month ago I decided that I needed a motivator and goal so I started checking out upcoming races.  I decided to sign up for the Flaming June Half Marathon that takes place just outside of Cambridge.  We have a lot going on in the next couple of months, so a close to home race fit the bill.  And knowing that I'm going to have to run 13.1 miles will definitely get me moving.
2011
I've started training and am using Hal Higdon's Novice 1 Training Plan as a guide.  I'm currently in week 5 and ran just over 6 miles this morning.  6 miles is just under 10k - so this distance I am familiar with and can handle.  We'll see how I'm doing once we get to week 10.


But I don't run just for me.  I run for Grammy.  My Grammy is an amazing woman.  She's a great cook and an amazing seamstress - both of which she tried to teach me.  Cooking I can handle - but I wish I had taken more time to learn proper technique and skill when it came to sewing.  Unfortunately she is no longer able to do either.
August 2012
August 2012, just before Luke and I moved to the UK, was the first time that I had ever truly experienced the effects of dementia/Alzheimer's.  In the car on the way back to her apartment, Grammy looked over at me and said, "Your mom is dead, right?"  I think I was a bit in shock and told her no, that my mom was waiting for us at her apartment.  But I didn't know how to respond.  Do I go with the flow and continue on her train of thought or do I attempt to bring her back to reality which could upset her?  I still don't know the proper answer to that one.  
April 2012
Just a couple months later, I flew back home to attend my grandfather's (other side of the family) funeral.  Shortly before that, Grammy fell and broke her foot - and then her other foot.  She was in the hospital when I got there and we knew that she could not go back to her apartment.  We selected a skilled nursing facility for her to recoup in and after she had been moved I went to visit her for lunch one day.  
"Well how'd you get up here so fast?" was her question.  "What do you mean, Grammy?  Where do you think we are?"  "Grant City, of course."  Grant City is where Grammy grew up and where she and Grandad retired to.  It is about 2 hours north of Kansas City.  I tried to tell her we were in Kansas City, but she wouldn't believe me.  To her, we were definitely in Grant City.  
22 June 2007
It has gotten progressively worse while I've been in UK.  Today she lives in a memory care center in Smithville, Missouri.  
November 2014
(don't forget to check out the photobomber in the back!)
The woman she is today is so very different from the woman that I grew up with.  I don't get to see her very often any more, but when I do, it's hard.  
Outwardly she looks pretty much the same as she always has - except that she now has long, pink fingernails (there is someone that comes into her unit to do manicures).  But it's hard to remember the last real conversation I had with Grammy.  Today, conversations are more or less her stories about what she believes she did that day.  Sometimes it's funny.  Sometimes it's sad.  
March 2010
Other than Alzheimer's and the inevitable fact that she is getting older, Grammy is pretty healthy.  She could continue to live like she is for a very long time which is hard to cope with.  It is a very stressful process for her daughters and very sad for her friends and family who have known her for so long and miss the woman we know and love.  
Because we live in the UK, I am unable to be there for Grammy and my family.  Therefore, I am running this half marathon for Grammy in hopes that the research and programs that the Alzheimer's Society leads and participates in will find treatments that will slow/cure/prevent Alzheimer's in the future.  Please join with me by supporting me on this run.  You can sponsor me on my fundraising page.  My goal is to raise £300 ($450) and run the half in under 2 hours.  
I'll keep you updated on how the training is coming over the next 7 weeks.  Pray for endurance and no injuries.
Love you & miss you,
Aubs

Monday, April 6, 2015

A Walk through Dunster – Somerset



During the conference, we had mornings off so we decided to take one morning to do a small bit of hiking.  Dunster is the next town over and has a 3.5 mile loop that takes just a couple of hours to do but takes you by some of their historic sites.

We started in town centre passing by the Yarn Market.



And then up the hill and to the right – passing the castle.



Winding through town to the water mill.




And through a residential area with thatched cottages.





Where we then found Gallox Bridge – an old packhorse bridge.




From here we headed uphill into Dunster Forest where we realized that it has been a year since we’ve walked through the woods.  The last time was when we visited our friends Kurt & Erin in Germany.



Near the top of the hill we found a family of deer enjoying a leisurely morning.



And at Bats Castle (an old Roman settlement) we found a family of ponies.




Unfortunately the views from the top were not fantastic as the sun had not yet made an appearance for the day due to the thick, white clouds.  But we were able to see the ocean.





As we headed down the other side of the hill we encountered yet another family.  This time a family of sheep.



And some super green fields.

this one’s for you Granny!
Before we came back to the bridge, passing the opposite side of the castle.




Our walk ended just in time for elevenses so we stopped at the Water Mill Café for a tea and cake.  Because after a hike – you always need cake.

Unfortunately that was our only Somerset adventure – but that’s okay.  It just means we need to come back, right?



Love you & miss you,
Aubs, Luke & Luther



Sunday, April 5, 2015

Tintagel Castle and the Hartland Coast – Day 3 - Cornwall to Devon


In order to set up for the conference, we needed to be in Somerset by 10am on Thursday, so I booked us into an Airbnb property on the north coast of Devon – about an hour away from the conference centre.  So on Wednesday, we made the move from Cornwall to Devon with a few stops along the way.

Our first stop was another English Heritage site – Tintagel Castle: the birthplace King Arthur (as legend has it).  The castle is built right on the cliffs and is very interesting because in addition to the castle, there are foundations for hundreds of other houses and buildings that were once on the site.  And there are multiple caves that you can explore at low tide. 

















As an added benefit – sheep roam the property to help maintain the grass.  And it’s lambing season!  So we got to see this little one who had been born overnight. 



After lunch, we headed north to Devon and to the Hartland Coast – another beautiful region of the coast.  We parked for a wee while at the lighthouse and had a bit of a wander. 




But at this point we were both a bit worn out from being blown around the pervious day and just wanted to early evening so we headed to Combe Martin and our home away from home for the evening.  And that concluded the main part of our holiday exploration since the conference started the following day. 

Love you & miss you,

Aubs, Luke & Luther